Likewise with you: since you eagerly seek the things of the Spirit, seek especially what will help in edifying the congregation.
We are meant to be servants. We do not need to stop having wants and desires, but there is much we can do in a congregational context that is about others, not ourselves. It is good and noble to behave in a way that builds each other up. The funny thing is, if everyone is working to help everyone else to become more, to grow and be more fruitful, their will be an amazing abundance that will profit and content everyone. In helping others, in building up others, we build up ourselves, what an awesome design from our Almighty Father.